http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17571174-preemptive-love I have lived in this culture for 64 + years and have been desensitized to wars and genocides of many peoples at many times, here and abroad, those strange ‘others’. Those ‘others’ who are just like you and I are. Those ‘others’ who have been dealt with horrifically often by this culture and this government from where I come. Thus!! What a ride this book is! It is a beacon of light to shine in the dark. For me, it was not only like fresh cold water cleansing and healing dry dead places, it was like open heart surgery removing the stony places to allow the freshness of truth and love to flow…I am astonished to see real live contemporary Peace Makers! “Love first and ask questions later.” DO NOT MISS THIS BOOK!!!